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My Wish Page
Inspired by this site, which outlines the concept of a Wish Page pretty well:
“Sharing your wishlist gives people opportunities to connect with you. From your list, they can infer passions and goals and sometimes even insecurities. They can quickly find common ground with you. They can offer suggestions and support…. Maintaining a wishlist promotes intentional spending. It's much easier to plan realistic budgets when all your future purchases are listed together.”
I thought this was a very nice idea for a page — and as someone with… a Spending Problem… I thought having my wants and potential future purchases laid out here might help me with, as that page states, intentional spending.
While this is a wishlist page, I didn't put it here so people can send me gifts. It's for my own reference–things I want to buy later, things I'm saving up for, “if-I-win-the-lottery” dream stuff, and maybe even some non-physical/item things I wish for. HOWEVER, if you Do want to send me a gift, you can find a wishlist here :), or you can contact me by email at [email protected] to discuss.
Things I'm Bribing Myself With
In early December 2025 I bought a digital wall calendar, it looks like a photo frame with an Android tablet in it, it's fucking awesome. It has a “rewards” system on its corresponding app; you complete tasks, you get stars, you use stars to buy rewards. I often do better when I have something to work for – that's the entire point of my fandom badges page, LOL – so I figured I'd try it out to get myself writing/working.
Currently, my bribes are…
At 100 stars, 5 stars for each completed writing task, I have these stimmy scented lava gel pens. I think they're so cute and would definitely be a good addition to my journalling hyperfixation, especially how you can stim with them. I want to start a writing journal - like, a journal for fiction/poetry/fanfiction/anything more in the realm of writing as opposed to general diary-ing - so I feel like this would help me write a bit more. Rewarding myself for writing with more writing - yay! wip
